Somebody had to ask these children what they thought about death. It’s not something that we normally talk about. Whether we’re nine or ninety, we tend to keep this subject on the back burner.
So, I ask your permission to bring this topic to the front burner for a few moments. I would like to use this letter to talk to you about death. Specifically, I want to talk to you about the last time that you will give the reason for the hope that you have.
Okay. You and I will have one last opportunity to witness to our faith in Jesus Christ. That final witness will be given: by the way that we handle dying, by the way in which we have ordered our earthly affairs, and through our funeral service.
Martin Luther had some wise things to say about the first two of these. It’s too bad that in regard to his earthly affairs, he didn’t heed his own words. He did not put his financial affairs in order prior to his death, leaving his wife, Katie, in a less than desirable position.
In regard to dying well, Luther wrote a sermon in 1519 simply titled, “A Sermon on Preparing to Die.” This sermon was shared with the pastors of the circuit recently by Pastor Bryce Bereuter of Calvary Lutheran. Here are some of Luther’s thoughts that came out of that presentation:
- Put your temporal goods in order for the sake of your survivors.
- Forgive all and seek forgiveness.
- Become familiar with death.
- At the hour of death, our sins seem greater, clouding our good works and making us unwilling to die. Hell looms larger. This is the devil’s work. He taunts us with thoughts of unworthiness, even as Jesus was taunted and mocked when He was dying.
- At the hour of death, see Christ who was eternally damned for you, descended into hell, and did for us a victory dance in Satan’s capitol city.
- How good it is to receive the Lord’s Supper when dying. There we receive Christ Himself to fight against the devil and the images he puts before us.
- In the hour of death, know that you are not alone but in union with those whose eyes are upon you: the Lord and His holy angels.
Of the third part of our final witness, Luther made no mention in his 1519 sermon. That leaves me to say it for him. Write down what you would want to have in your funeral service. Put in as much detail as possible. Then, file that information with the church office.
Here’s why. Your funeral service is your last witness to your faith. What do you want to say? From my side of the pew, I can tell you that when I put together a funeral service the first resource I look to is the congregation member’s personal file. At Immanuel, in the big safe that’s in the church office we keep pieces of paper on which our members have written down their biographical information and funeral service requests. That’s the first place, and probably the only place, a pastor will know to look for funeral service input. I have even had pastors call me for this kind of information on my former members.
Now, perhaps you would like to leave the planning of such a service to your family and the pastor. That is perfectly okay. But if this letter has caused you to do some reflecting, then, perhaps, you will join me in filling out the form I am enclosing with this newsletter. I am going to fill out mine. And let’s get these forms turned in to the church office.
Now, aren’t you curious about what Luther meant when he said, “Become familiar with death”? I’d like to talk more about this, but I will save it for another time.
May the God of hope, who raised from the dead our Lord Jesus Christ, the great shepherd of the sheep, sustain and strengthen your hope in Christ, and keep you ready to give the reason for your hope.